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Monday, February 22, 2010

bullies solution..


salam..dayah mohd here...school bullies is a problem for society worldwide and should be stopped to make school safer and healthier place for students. the solution involve coorperation between the school, the teacher, the individual, the parents, the media and the community.
1. the school
- locate the areas and to note the time where and when bullying activities are most likely to
occur.
- example place such as bathrooms, areas behind school block and others are the target to
bullies.
- place the teacher on duty to the areas that bullies happen.
- organize talk on the bullies
2. the teacher
- teach the subjects such as moral and religious eduction.
- encouraged students to involve students creating classroom rules against bullies.
- talk about bullies in class.
3. the individual
- mix with good friends.
- report bullies to school
- join the club that training the skills to prevent bullies such as 'Cadet Police Club' or 'Criminal
Defensive'
4. the parents
- sets an example behavior at home for their children to follow like a good behavior.
- give proper training moral and religion at home.
- spare time with children so that parents will know about the children
5. the media
- should not screen films of violence and sexual contents to avoid immoral behavior.
- screen the film with a good behavior.
6. the comunity
- helps school to prevent bullies

Friday, February 5, 2010

consequences of bullies to the student


Salam.... Rashidah here...This is my time to elaborate this topic.... My topic is about effect of bullying to the student... so that all of us know about the bullying of students can become negative effects that may affect the psychological development of children or teenagers.
Effect of bully can divide into two which is who become a victim and who become the bullies.

1. Effect to the bullies.

• bullies are sometimes viewed positively by their peers, they rarely are capable of maintaining close friendships. It is because their peer may be busy with the criminal activities and another student feared to close to them. Even as an observers of bullying which is students who see bullying happen also may feel that they are in an unsafe environment.
• they are usually not doing well in school and not well liked by their teachers. So, that their performance in the exam will down.
• for the long term effect, bullies when adult, likely will become criminals and acting aggressive such as become a robbery, theft, and may be if the bullies become a corporate person, he may be become a cheater to his client or maybe he doing corruption to get project.

2. Effects to the student who being a victim.

• give more effect to the mental of the student. The stress from being bullied can create problems for children at school. They seem afraid to be in quiet place or attending school because afraid to being a bullied.
• fear and anxiety can make it difficult for the child to focus and engage in the classroom and making learning that much more difficult. They often fear and worry every time they are at school. This makes them to engage in the learning process
• these student will lack of confidence level, they will let themselves be treated anything and become a severe person, willing to do something by felicitate others and so forth. In most cases, children who have been bullied may actually lack social skills to make friends with other children in comfort. Often, victims of bullying feel awkward to socialize with others, and this discomfort becomes severe when they bullied. It is a cycle that is difficult stopped by the victim where they have opportunities to interact with peers is another level because this level is important for their development.
• extreme victims can develop depression or physical illness.
• for long term consequences of being a victim sometimes vary a good deal. Most victims of bullying do well in school and are able to make friends are they grow older. Most victims, especially if they receive support from adults important in their lives, survive the experience of being bullied without long term effects.
• for negative impact for long term effect, the bullied may be will avenge the others